In China, nursing a toddler is socially acceptable. It is even perceived as desirable for a woman to nurse her baby for a long time. A study published in the Journal of Epidemiology on lactating Chinese women shows a significant 50% reduction in risk of developing breast cancer when a woman nurses for two years or more.
On our recent trip to Slovenia, while I was nursing my two-year-old girl, my friend Irena told me with smiling eyes and a hushed voice that she was still nursing her toddler too. And it was as if the music stopped at our welcome party and the women around the table, both family and friends, stared at her wide-eyed with jaws agape a full two seconds before the unison "a res a kaj? (in Slovenian "what, really?"). Then came the usual, "you will spoil her", "she's too big", and "your milk isn't good anymore- there's no reason to", and "it's really too much"...